How can i do this! Not see the beauty of life and its gifts and get into a tizzy of gloom & doom..All it takes is a bit of clearing up and seeing reason..Tough love most definitely helps so does being responsible!I had all but given up on this plant.. it was looking dreary by the day..its leaves wilted and brown.. all that happened , the other day was a bit of clearing.. wilted leaves got cleaned up and pruned and the next day i find 5 deep pink buds.. i had all but missed them !